Thursday, April 4, 2019

Parenting 101: Loitering In Back Alleys


     I have been spending a lot of time over the past two weeks getting overly acquainted with the alley behind the David L. Lawrence Convention Center.  Even though it is a rather nice alley that is free of dumpsters and drunkards using it for a toilet, I am not spending quality time with it as a new hobby.
     Due to high school musical season being in full swing and me being the primary mode of transportation for my daughter, I end up needing a spot to stash my car in the Downtown area while I'm waiting for rehearsals and performances to wrap up.  I have yet to encounter street parking that is near the school and I'll be damned if I fork over $6 a night over the course of three weeks to park in the garage across the street from the school.  So illegally parking in the alley it is.
     The only problem with the alley is that other parents had this same idea and other parents are fucking stupid.  Or inconsiderate.  Or both.  Every night, I end up with the same dipshit in the oversized luxury SUV parked behind me.  He sits there with his headlights, fog lights and blinkers on so no matter which way I turn my head there are lights reflecting off of my mirrors and into my eyeballs.
     Not only was this idiot's car lit up like I was the Sun's Uber, he was also watching videos on his phone with the audio running through the car's bluetooth at an ear splitting volume.  All I wanted to do was sit quietly with my thoughts and contemplate the passing of Scott Walker but no, I have to tolerate someone that has turned the world into his living room.
     Scott Walker was an artist that was so comfortably perched on the edge of the farthest reaches of left field.  Soused, which was his collaboration with Sunn O))), is still one of the most challenging listens in my record collection.  Scott Walker made the listener work for it in order to keep up with him to the point of frustration.  There are times when I'm listening to his music that I feel like I'm just not smart enough to wrap my brain around it.  I keep trying because at some point it will click and I'll be greatly rewarded for my efforts.
     One of the upsides of running laps between home and school was stopping at Black Forge for coffee and hitting up Skull Records for a ticket to see Behind Enemy Lines.  It makes me so happy that they are active again since I missed them the first time around.
     Even though I have never seen the band before, I had an odd relationship with them during the 00's.  Behind Enemy Lines was my cover to get out of the house and have an evening to myself when the relationship with my child's mother was taking a nose dive into a volcano.
     Since she was not a fan of the louder, more aggressive end of the musical spectrum, I would say I was going to a Behind Enemy Lines show and go sit quietly somewhere.  Or go have dinner at a place of my choosing.  Or simply enjoy not being constantly wrong for a few hours.
     They're playing at Cattivo on May 20th.  Also on the bill will be Antisect, EEL and Destitut.  I have never heard Antisect or Destitut before but I can't wait to find out about them.
     While I was out and about, after a late night, post-musical pick up/drop off, I stopped in at Gooski's to catch Submachine.  They were playing with Hub City Stompers and the Microbials.
     The Microbials were on stage when I walked in and had Chachi, the bass player from Submachine, on guitar.  I only caught their last three songs or so but I liked what I heard.  I will definitely try to catch them in the future.
     Submachine was up next and I noticed more of their newer songs creeping into their set.  From what I could tell through earplugs and the less than desirable sound of Gooski's, their next record will be able to level cities.  I know what I'll be giving everyone for Christmas when it comes out.
     Hub City Stompers finished out the night.  They're a ska band from New Jersey and as far as ska goes, they weren't bad.
     I consider ska to be the cilantro of music.  Some people really like it and others are genetically predisposed to have a reaction that is quite the opposite.  I fall into the latter category on both ska and cilantro.
     Hub City Stompers were good and the songs were tight, even with the uphill battle of technical issues with the PA.  But there is just something about a horn section and that style of guitar playing that is just not for me.
     I stuck it out for a few songs, took some pictures and honestly tried to give the band a listen but to no avail so I said my goodbyes and back out into the night I went.  I don't know what the disconnect in my brain is when it comes to ska but for whatever reason I can't get to it.
     Sunday morning's pre-musical milling about on the internet led me to a recently released Marvin Gaye album called You're The Man.  The songs on the album were written, recorded and were supposed to be released between What's Going On and Let's Get It On.  The story behind You're The Man is that work on a potential album was abandoned in order for Mr. Gaye to start working on the soundtrack for the film Trouble Man.  Some of the songs had trickled out here and there over the years in varying sound quality but now they've been given a proper mix and mastering.
     You're The Man is further evidence that Marvin Gaye was operating at the height of his powers during this part of his life.  This guy had so much going on at this time that he was able to put a stunning batch of songs on the shelf and still be left with three of the best records ever made.
     I have to make sure that I have nothing else to do when I listen to this thing because I will fall right into it and lose track of time.  Sadly, I'm stuck with a download for now.  My usual routine of running into Juke Records after day job to grab this type of a record has been brought to an abrupt end since they closed shop a few weeks ago.  I will pick up the vinyl as soon as I come across it in the bins.
     The kid has to work stage crew for one more run of shows.   Then I can say goodbye to the alley and once again minimize my contact with other parents until this time next year.